Whether you decide to deal with your grave situations or not, the fact remains, that one day your present will become your past and it will remain there forever...no decision will ever erase it from your life...and one will think - "what difference does it make when neither of your decisions is going to lessen your pain"
But there is all the difference in the world
"Dealing or not dealing with your grave present is not going to stop it from being your past but the difference remains that when you face your situations, with facing comes acceptance and a possibility of a solution and then when you look back you will look at a "Memory"
"But when you escape your situations leave them as they are, and think that with passing time it will get better, you will be just making a fool of your self, because now when you look back you will not help but feel a regret..."
Trust me its lot easier to deal with a Sour Memory than a "Regret". Though sour memories messes you a great deal but a regret will seriously screw your life...
You just have to choose the lesser of the two evils ..... Choice Remain Yours !!!
Written By - A Thinker
Rz..
But there is all the difference in the world
"Dealing or not dealing with your grave present is not going to stop it from being your past but the difference remains that when you face your situations, with facing comes acceptance and a possibility of a solution and then when you look back you will look at a "Memory"
"But when you escape your situations leave them as they are, and think that with passing time it will get better, you will be just making a fool of your self, because now when you look back you will not help but feel a regret..."
Trust me its lot easier to deal with a Sour Memory than a "Regret". Though sour memories messes you a great deal but a regret will seriously screw your life...
You just have to choose the lesser of the two evils ..... Choice Remain Yours !!!
Written By - A Thinker
Rz..
Agreed.. Besides, who knows what's beyond this life. It's just one chance we have, why wait..
ReplyDeleteaJ
Happiness is what we all fight for. Why must a Man of thought live to chance on whether he may live happy in his life. Decisions must be made, whether they are for the present or the future. Only then can there be closure and any form of satisfaction.
ReplyDelete'What I experience now is the result of my past, what I experience in the future depends on what I do now'
ReplyDeleteRegret, this word..am scared of it.
@akash : yes ...its jus for once .... and we better make the best of it ...
ReplyDelete@D2 : yes as I said .. only after that can we mentally and emotionally move on and for tht peace of mind ... its important to embrace what comes our way ...
@Poonam : dont be because I am sure you of all the people will not have to face it ...